I dunno, Yamato's yelled at me a couple of times for not immediately jumping into stuff. He called it running away. [and before riku can say anything:] We're fine, we talked about it later. Things are better.

...if Sora and I are really as alike as you say we are, then it's probably because he thinks he can fix whatever's bothering him on his own. You guys have a lot going on, right? Why add extra worry when there's a bigger picture?

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Not that it's the right answer, but I don't think it's about not wanting the help. More like not knowing if it's worth asking when the problem is something you can fix yourself if you try hard enough.