I don't mean that we should just lie over passively. But if you know it's a possibility, then you might as well prepare your heart for it. Then, you'll be able to handle it if it occurs, rather than break down.
...yeah i get it people are still breaking down at executions so how can we help prepare people for the possibilities of what's coming next? i'm not saying you have to give me specific answers i'm just...wondering, i guess
There probably isn't a general answer for something like that. How people respond will depend on their own life experiences, so what works for one might not work for another.
Figure out what are things you need to live and what you could move on without. You don't have to settle, and it's fine to be greedy. But it helps to be self-aware enough to know how you'll react to loss, as it's inevitably a part of living.
...i don't see how that can't be applicable to everybody but i get what you're saying we all have to pick and choose sometimes don't we? this school still has things we've gained and lost. so..it's a thought
It's not something a lot of people will want to do, and not everyone will find it simple to do within a short timeframe. In the end, what you've gained and what you've lost can sometimes be mind over matter.
uh considering people care about you and also you're a dorm head, no, killing yourself wouldn't go over that well and if something happens to you i doubt it'd be that easy anyway
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I would say less I'm worried and more that I'm braced for it.
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But if you know it's a possibility, then you might as well prepare your heart for it. Then, you'll be able to handle it if it occurs, rather than break down.
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people are still breaking down at executions
so how can we help prepare people for the possibilities of what's coming next?
i'm not saying you have to give me specific answers i'm just...wondering, i guess
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You don't have to settle, and it's fine to be greedy. But it helps to be self-aware enough to know how you'll react to loss, as it's inevitably a part of living.
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we all have to pick and choose sometimes don't we?
this school still has things we've gained and lost. so..it's a thought
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In the end, what you've gained and what you've lost can sometimes be mind over matter.
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do you feel like you've gained anything by being here?
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Like I said, I'm not a good metric to use.
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i'd kind of prefer you didn't die for us even if you have experience though
[this is not a suggestion this will happen he's just vaguely /stares into the sun about hugo's memory still.]
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I told you weeks before that that's what I'd prefer, even before the entire thing about villains became relevant.
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i know.
if that's what it comes to, i will
[he was just kind of hoping he wouldn't ever have to make that choice again????]
even if there's a chance to save you?
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and if something happens to you i doubt it'd be that easy anyway
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whatever it is
i don't want to give this world what it wants
but we'll do what we have to and what's best for everybody
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